Interview with Amber_xclusive

• How long have you been working as an escort?
  
  Well, Since I started Uni, so around 18 months xX
   
  
  
• When and how did you become an escort? What motivated you to start doing it? What was your background before this work?
  
  AAah im afraid its the old cliche answer of "it funds my student lifestyle" hehe, plus, its ALOT of fun!!
   
  
  
• Do you like being an escort? What do you enjoy most in it? What is important and have value for you in it?
  
  I GENUINELY love my work yes, I love the meeting of new people, chatting to them, going to different places, and the sex helps too haha. I enjoy making people feel relaxed, and satisfied, thats when i feel i've done a good job.
   
  
  
• What don't you like about being an escort?
  
  Probably the unpredictability of it and the weird calls at 2am. as for the clients, oh i have some stories to tell hehehehe.
   
  
  
• What makes you notable among other providers? What exactly, you believe, you're good at? What makes your service unique? What is your favorite kind of service?
  
  Ahhh thats easy, Im a lovely, home bred Cardiff girl who genuinely likes to make people feel good, at ease and satisfied. My service is unique because I REFUSE to do a "porn style" type service, its a total Girlfriend experience. I wouldnt insult my clients by being fake and rushing them, I like to be friendly and then it progresses much better naturally. I think guys can really tell if youre just a money grabbing rusher, and it spoils everything for them. I Guess thats why 99 percent of my work is repeat business.
   
  
  
• How do you prefer a client to make an appointment? What information is important for you? Is screening required before the appointment?
  
  Well lets see, if its an outcall (like a hotel or a house) then i require a landline number, just to make sure that they're actually THERE. In a htel i'd ask for the second name, room number and i'd call them back. With an incall, just a quick confirmation call half hour beforehand is OK for me as if they dont turn up, then atleast I havent wasted money on taxis and wasted time i could have spent on other bookings. I heard a story from a client who claimed the last escort he had seen had actually asked him to send a copy of ID and a picture!!!-Now thats CRAAAAZY!!! discretion is paramount for the client.ALWAYS.
   
  
  
• What types of clients you deny to meet? Are there any restrictions?
  
  Well all i'll say here is, i'm not a market place on a saturday morning.....so NO HAGGLING FELLAS!!!! hahahaha xxx
   
  
  
• Do you have regular client assignments? How do you choose whom you wish to see on this basis?
  
  In my opinion Its not a case of "who i choose to see regularly" its a case of "who chooses to see me regularly". It HAS to be a mutual thing of-course and I think you can just TELL if you "click"
   
  
  
• When you visit a client, what kind of environment do you expect a client to provide?
  
  Safe, friendly, clean. very basic really, Id expect the client to provide the type of environment he'd expect me to provide for him if he visited. I understand everybody has different standards but the basics are safe, comfortable and clean, you can tell if they've made an effort and it does go a long way.
   
  
  
• Do you have any particular requirements regarding hygiene? What are the guidelines that your client should follow?
  
  as above really, id expect what he'd expect. I usually stick to the "im going on a date" preparations, (so...shower,definetely, perfumr, make up etc) Just make an effort I guess.
   
  
  
• Describe your common HIV/STD prevention procedures. What kind of tests and how often do you pass? Are the test results available upon request?
  
  Absoloutely my test results are available, these are on a 6 monthly basis and Im happy to say im disease and drug free (so they told me!! hehe just joking!!). Condoms are a MUST HAVE with NO exeptions!!! But with oral sex, you have to make your own judgements haha.
   
  
  
• What are your rates?
  
  well in the daytime i offer a fab 30 min service at my place for £60(this is available mon-fri 9am-4pm only) and an hour for £110. OUTCALL- half hour - £70 and an hour £120.
   
  
  
• Are there additional charges for "extras"? If so, what are these?
  
  oooooh tricky one, would have to contact me to discuss as "extras" covers ALOT of stuff!!!! hahaha.
   
  
  
• What payment options are available? How would you prefer the client to pay?
  
  Strictly cash only xx but clients know that.
   
  
  
• How would you prefer the money to be given? Please describe step-by-step payment procedure. What guidelines should a client follow to make the payment convenient and risk-free for you.
  
  well the clients i get really are usually very good, i RARELY have to ask for payment and its ALWAYS upfront. Cheers guys!!! hha
   
  
  
• If you accept credit or debit cards, how will charges appear on a credit card statement?
  
  
  NO c/c sorry xx
   
  
  
• If a client decided to make you a present, what would you be happy to receive? What is your wish-list (maybe flowers, lingerie, parfume, music albums, books etc.)?
  
  Lingerie is always a winner for me, i love flowes, wine or champagne, chocolates etc. I guess id be a bit uncomfortable acceoting anything too expensive so i usually stick to the COLLEAGUES BORTHDAY PRESENT STYLE haha. In other words, anything you'd buy for someone you work with is usually a winner.xX
   
  
  
• Do you travel? If so, what does that involve on the client's part?
  
  I dont really travel actually. But am happy to discuss if this is required xX
   
  
  
• Do you allow kisses?
  
  Of-course!! strange question.haha.
   
  
  
• If a client wants, will you engage in a role play? What kind of?
  
  Oh yes, its so much fun, Am VERY VERY welcoming and encourage new ideas from clients however I have a few of my own ideas if they get shy. Really not a problem for me hehe .
   
  
  
• How do you handle a situation where a client may want to get "wild and crazy"?
  
  
  am firm, fair, polite, never rude, stay calm. The client should treat you as he'd expect to be treated if situation was reversed but also be sensitive to the fact that you may feel uncomfortable if theyre acting differently all of a sudden. Wild an Crazy is great..... demanding and forceful isnt. I guess different girls will tolerate different things. But why not say that youre really looking for some HOT, ROUGH, PASSIONATE sex???- works with me!! haha
   
  
  
• Do you allow the clients to make photos or video recordings? If yes, on what terms?
  
  Yes, very few restrictions, you can contact me to discuss this.
   
  
  
• How do you handle first-timers or those who have limited experience with escort services? What are your suggestions to such clients to make your encounter the most enjoyable?
  
  Well, These clients are in safe hands with me as ive mentioned, I aim to provide comfort, security, friendliness, relaxation and satisfaction. A Nice massage usually does wonders as does a good chat...and let them know that its COOL and OK to be shy,and nervous, almost EVERYONE i see IS!!! so really no big deal, Plus they ALWAYS leave feeling glad they did (well, thats what the smile tells me haha)
   
  
  
• Have you ever had experiences with disabled clients? How do you meet their special needs?
  
  Yes, I have ground floor access and very few restrictions in doorways etc. Ive also given a service whilst a carer was present. it really is no big deal. definetely mail or call me though if you have requirements that would need arrangine beforehand xX
   
  
  
• What are your feelings about and attitude to participating as an escort in group parties, where several escorts serve several clients?
  
  
  Its Fun, and aslong as everyone is happy doing it, usually goes very smoothly, and even have a few laughs hahaha.
   
  
  
• What is your attitude towards tobacco, alcohol and drugs? Do you drink or smoke yourself? Do you allow the client to do it during your meeting?
  
  I drink socially and have been known to have a puff of a cigarette. If im at a visit and am offered a drink its nothing more than polite to accept, after all, if you refused then in my view, this would be uncomfortble for the client. i always try to treat it as a date.And as for drugs, what i dont know doesnt hurt haha, we're all adults.
   
  
  
• What are the most usual types of "difficult" clients you meet? What would you like to warn them about in advance?
  
  DIFFICULT in my eyes is either wanting or trying to get more than what you paid for or timewasters really. This is zero tolerance and clients should explain that they think something is unfair before they even think about becoming "difficult" i know i keep saying it but it REAlLY is a case of TREAT HOW YOU WOULD LIKE TO BE TREATED. however you shouldnt ever be scared to tell the escort if you dont think somethings very fair or if youre unhappy with something as you'll usually find shes probably a bit nervous too and will be happy to rectify it for you xx
   
  
  
• What would happen, if at some point you or the client wished to stop the proceedings? How would you handle the issue of compensation?
  
  well, this has happened and it just so happened at the 45 minute point, so 30 pounds was refunded but as it was pretty mutual and we were both happy, he drove me home to say sorry and to save me the taxi fee.
   
  
  
• What are the things that excite you or appeal to you when on a "date"? What turns you on?
  
  oh laughing is always a winner, and i love to do it. no matter who you meet i believe EVERYONE has SOMETHING in common, and that can be funny in itself haha. I like a good, clean, nice smelling date, as like i said, i always treat it as a date.
   
  
  
• What are your sexual preferences? What kinds of activity do you enjoy most of all?
  
  GFE without a doubt as thats what gets the best responses from my clients.
   
  
  
• What are your turn-offs?
  
  bad hygiene. thats it.
   
  
  
• What was your most funny sexual experience?
  
  trying to bend over a stair case whilst dressed as a nurse and realising my stockings were stuck on the bannister and trying to remove nylon from metal whilst maintaining a straight face AND trying to look sexy is NO joke hahaha but we laughed hahaha.
   
  
  
• What was your most funny escorting experience?
  
  oh my gosh,..... i need MUCH MORE paper for these hahaha
   
  
  
• What was your most odd or weird escorting experience?
  
  probably a client that spoke NO ENGLISH and his translator made the date however she had left when i arrived and we really were on my own. However its amazing what improvised sign language can do hahahaha.
   
  
  
• Hypothetical situation: your best friend, or your sister, or your daughter tells you that she wants to get into escort business. Would you encourage her to do it?
  
  I would encourage her to THINK hard about it. its the ULTIMATE self employment situation, im lucky as i have my studies to fall back on. Safety is paramount. Howver really is her choice, id be a hippocrite to say otherwise. would gladly share tips and experience if the decision was made.
   
  
  
• If someone wished to become an escort, how would you recommend they go about it?
  
  same as above really. probably agency work is a bit better to start off with.
   
  
  
• What are your hobbies and passions, things you love to do and discuss? Music genres, movies, reading preferences etc.? What other talents do you have?
  
  Ahhhh ok, now we're getting nosey!! haha. Well cooking, reading, travel, shopping (yeah i know i know, typicalwoman hehe), painting, yoga. I love movies, and classic movies actually. It really does depend on my mood, I have a passion for socialising haha.
   
  
  
• What are your dreams, future goals and aspirations? Short and long term?
  
  Well im studying performing arts----you figure it out hahaha.
   
  
  
• Anything else to add?
  
  Yeah...my fingers hurt from this typing interrogation, im off to rub my eyes and have a stratch.....thanks for reading hahaha Amber -x-
   
  
  

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