Forum - Why bother if she allows DATY?

Read a number of interviews and got this question.

I believe that providers only want money from us and do not expect or want us to pleasure them. No matter what has been said here or in person this is a job for providers.

I understand being turned on and horny and wanting to lick a girl all over, even A LITTLE DATY, but I do not understand all this damn hype. So many guys asking about DATY. Why? My god, they are not into it. Do you get pleasure from doing it? You like licking a hooker's kitty? Why exaclty? The smell, the taste? What? If not to think you are pleasing them. That is a myth that they provide and you're stupid enough to pay for it. Why bother?

I have a partner I DATY frequently. I do it for her to pleasure her. Sometimes I'm really into it, but most of the time I am making sure she "gets hers".

But if i am paying someone, say $200, why would I waste the time prentending I'm pleasing her. I don't care...

If you treat an escort like an object, a product to cosume then you're right... but if the girl enjoys the session you may get much better product to consume :)
If a salesgirl is someone who is supposed to sale you something, don't you think that you and she would enjoy the process more if you say her some compliments? You are not supposed to do it, but it may give you both more pleasure from doing ordinary things. And the session is much more intimate process, so it depends much more on the mood and emotional state of both parties. I will suggest that most good providers somewhat enjoy DATY, at least as long as the guy is not too bad at it. Like any job, you are in it for the money, but to be good at it you have to somehow enjoy it.

Ok I'm new here so I have to ask, What is DATY?

Dinning at the Y = Cunnilingus

I do DATY. It feels like you are bonding after all. If I feel like it though, I mean it depends who you are with. If you feel the intimacy, why not

Stuff like this really gets to me. Really gets to me.

1st off you have to realize that we human being belong to the animal classification of mammels, we have senses that seperate of from many other types of life forms. But the main senses that we posses are sight, sound, smell, taste, touch and feel.

We are warm blooded and have an automatic breathing response. We have to breathe, we can not control it like some animals can. Animals have always identified their species, predators and prey by smell. Animals use smell to tell when a female of the species is in heat. Many animals not only smell but taste the female to see if she is ready to mate.

This goes back to evolution and procreation of the species so, what the hell is wrong with it? If it weren't for these inbred genetic impulses we might not be here.

It doesn't hurt, some people enjoy it. I do. Biologically speaking, rimming a person has less bacteria and germs than a mouth contains when kissing. So if you're worried about going down on a woman I'd be more worried about kissing her.

When a couple is trying to get pregnant, or is, one of the things docs tell you is no oral sex. No DATY. It is 99.99988% effetive as birth control and can cause a mis-carriage.

This makes me think of a show I watched on TV where the pizza guys got revenge on non tipping and/or rude customers. They knew the addresses where they were going and some would lick the pizzas or jerk off and rub some cum on it etc...

Luckily if we have rude clients we can choose not to see them again.

Myself I am not into daty but do preffer men that are more pleasant and ask what I like and want to make it enjoyable for both. I also believe men are not dumb and can tell if someone over acts and is for real or not. I also may be into BDSM (Not at this Moment) but prefer a man who asks if I am ok or listens to feelings etc...

It really is true you get back what you give.

As stated by men on other boards by some members.

"Treat em with respect boys." :)

I can only speak for myself, but I LOVE DATY...If hes not into it, thats fine..But I am ALWAYS up for it!

I don't know about you other guys...but I love to experience a womans body...the feel, the smell, the taste...mmm. If I'm not going to fully experience the woman I'm with I might as well save the money and take care of myself :-)...and by the way ladies...I have a full, soft beard and play trumpet ;-) If you have never experienced a "beard rub" from a trumpet player you don't know what you're missing...and yes, I can "double tongue", "tripple tongue", and "flutter tongue"