Forum - Sex but without the sex... Step by step.

I met with an awesome individual here recently. Their way to go about things was what I like, and probably many women like. They took their time. Our time together was totally not rushed. Guys always talk about ladies rushing the sessions... but what about us ladies talking about when guys rush into things? Guys, if you want to enjoy and satisfy your sexual appetite, learn to take your time. If you generally like one hour, stay for two. It will be what you make it, make it worth it. Start off really slow. Think the whole time about not having sex. Think about what you can do that would turn the other person on. Whether that be gently caressing the body, ankle to inner thigh, around the crotch but not too close, up the side of the ribs, then little circles around the nipples, pehaps move your hand up and fit your hand on the side/back of her neck and gently kiss different non-sexual parts of the her body. Women, do the same thing. Think the whole time about what feels good but is not sex. It will make the other person crave it. It's all about the foreplay. Foreplay will determine the intensity of the things to follow. I say this not only so women will get satisfied, but men, if you satisfy your woman, she will be more eager to take care of you!

Dear Brook, I completely agree with you. I'm an experienced hobbiest - possibly too experienced - and have been enjoying the pleasure and excitement that providers make possible since 1962, at least. I always book for 3 hours since that gives us time to get acquainted and almost all of the ladies I've seen over the years have a story to tell and have seen a lot of life. Getting to know them first, just cuddling with them sometimes is the most refreshing thing about meeting them. Many times I do not climax myself but always try to pleasure them - and sometimes they enjoy actual climaxes when I'm just using my tongue and fingers to play [OK, it's hard to tell ordinarily but when you have a finger or two in a woman's vagina and she climaxes: you Will Know It - those who don't understand what I mean just need to try it].
In any case, the hours spent with lovely providers like yourself are some of the best memories of my life. David

I wholeheartedly agree with you Brook.
Personally I get a great deal of pleasure from giving pleasure.
If the girl isn't completely satisfied then neither am I.
I love to make a girl cum as many times as she needs -and sometimes a few more times just for luck! Quite often I do not climax myself but am still more than satisfied just because I know she is. Having a good tongue really helps but knowing how to use it helps even more. Sometimes I watch those guys on the porn movies going at it like they haven't eaten for a week! That's not the way to do it. Slowwww, gentle, loving is the way to go. Take the time to make her happy and you'll both leave happy.

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i also encourage my clients to take their time, even in my personal life, once i had sex for 3 hours straight, then the load becomes much more it just all comes out, i think that the girls tend to like that

I agree as well. I think the older you get, the more you understand that pleasing your partner is just as important as pleasing yourself. I love lots of foreplay, it makes you feel the anticipation of the moment and really heightens the intensity of orgasm.

I think it is not as much an issue of how much time you spend but to be able to forget yourself. As a man you will always try to maybe rush or go straight to the act.

the real pleasure however comes from teasing, feeling and giving pleasure to the other person. Talking is part of it of course.

I think, as a man, it is good to "forget" yourself a bit and only give. that can open much more passion, too...and I guess it is finally all about passion....

I think every woman like men who dont just fuck and shoot but think of us. Touching, kissing, taking time and making us feel good and like a human being. For sure this is also more fun for a man.

+1

As Treebeard in "Lord of the Rings" used to say, DON'T BE SOOO HASSSTY...BURRARUMMM...)))

I think it's not really really the amount of time but the the quality of time spent.....some men want short but intense experience....and some men want to take it slow and build up the heat. Anyways, as long as the provider is not in a rush and just go with the flow. But yes, a lot foreplays prior to the main course really heightens the excitement.

As said, it of course depends on the person. It is fun if there is a litle bit of patience and play. this can be a foreplay or justto talk. Whatever it is I think with a bit more time you will know the persona bit more cna can tease the partner a bitmore. Isn't that all about? to please, tease and to play. If it is just to cum well then there are many other ways too....

I belive you are so ture... and I guess you met with an asian guy? atleast not an american.