Is it wrong to fall in love with a client ?
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06/26/11 07:30
Michael2015 |
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The bottom line, ladies & gents, is that escorting is a BUSINESS & NOT a dating service!!!
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06/26/11 10:16
Naughty Kitty |
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you cant make me believe different that the men who fall in love with escorts are lonely and or desperate men. men who need a hobby were he can be around and meet other people. And for escorts they are tired of being an escort or never really liked it and are just looking for a way out. I do know some asian girls use it to meet western men hope to marry especially bar girls. but that is not love and most of those girls just looking for a way to get to the mans country where they find a bf.
if you call using men who are lonely love then I guess you are right....the problem is just like a wife who never see her husband is cheating when every one else in town know.....the man is to lonely to think she could be doing it for anything but love. sad and stupid all in the same time. most of these men are in their 40s and 50s..... Any sucessful business men is 99% of the time already married. as example I see some men who are executives and even ceo of company....t hey always tell me they love seeing me but could never leave their wife and children. It can even ruin their career in some case to divorce. if it is an hour pay worker then if he is divorced you must accept him paying money to his wife before to take care children or even more.....have his children in your life. when you in your 20s you want to enjoy in life and experience all but men in they 40s and 50s who have already lived this want us 20 somethng year girls to give up ours to be with just them. Even if in rare case it s art as real love what happen after she hear her friends out and begins to think about the experiences she missed? even if she really like you in time she will resent what she missed or missing and when some man smile the right way you lost her. SO many man ask me for advice or explanatiion why his wife leave or cheat when he gve her EVERYTHING she ask. The reason is simple..... you take her young and she will later hate you for it no matter what you give her. I have said in many posts here in past. if you want to feel young and sex with a young girl than pay and enjoy you time. if you want a wife find a girl less than 10 year your age -------------------- Do you want your balls in my hand or do you want me to hand you your balls?
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06/26/11 10:25
Michael2015 |
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quote Naughty Kitty : you cant make me believe different that the men who fall in love with escorts are lonely and or desperate men. men who need a hobby were he can be around and meet other people. And for escorts they are tired of being an escort or never really liked it and are just looking for a way out. I do know some asian girls use it to meet western men hope to marry especially bar girls. but that is not love and most of those girls just looking for a way to get to the mans country where they find a bf. if you call using men who are lonely love then I guess you are right....the problem is just like a wife who never see her husband is cheating when every one else in town know.....the man is to lonely to think she could be doing it for anything but love. sad and stupid all in the same time Kitty, U're rite! May I add that it's also pathetic? |
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06/26/11 10:43
Naughty Kitty |
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I not so sure it pathetic cause we all make stupid mistakes in life we wish we never make. I just wish men would learn from each other but most men deny it to each other. Every day men tell me online chat they know 100"S of men 50 marry to thai girl 20 that are happy. WELL all I can say if that was even close to true the way men like how we look we would all be gone from thailand many years ago. GEEZ. western men who even live here are cheated all the time cause they want a young girl wife. Just read our papers....all the time things hppen like thai lady 32 and her thai bf kill her 62 year old dutch husband. but you know what? if they girl not go to prison she will have another 62 year old sucker tomorrow.
marry some one near your age. there are exceptions but VERY FEW that work. -------------------- Do you want your balls in my hand or do you want me to hand you your balls?
-2 hours 6000 baht *lunch or dinner + 2 hours 6000 baht -4 hour 7, 500 *lunch or dinner + 4 hours 6500 baht -all day OR all night 9500 baht - 24 hour 12000 www.gappza.me |
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06/26/11 15:56
tone kinchloe |
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quote Naughty Kitty : I not so sure it pathetic cause we all make stupid mistakes in life we wish we never make. I just wish men would learn from each other but most men deny it to each other. Every day men tell me online chat they know 100"S of men 50 marry to thai girl 20 that are happy. WELL all I can say if that was even close to true the way men like how we look we would all be gone from thailand many years ago. GEEZ. western men who even live here are cheated all the time cause they want a young girl wife. Just read our papers....all the time things hppen like thai lady 32 and her thai bf kill her 62 year old dutch husband. but you know what? if they girl not go to prison she will have another 62 year old sucker tomorrow. marry some one near your age. there are exceptions but VERY FEW that work. I never rule anything out when it comes to love, true love. Age? Sorry but I dont agree with u on that for many reasons but the main one is this. I value the quality of each day spent compared to the quanity of days. So what if I should meet a younger woman? The understanding I would have with her would be this and quite simple. Let us enjoy what time we have have together as long as it is quality time. Trust me, when it comes to the point to where I'm a burden then I will remove myself from the picture and wish her well and encourage her to live life to the fullest. I also would want to leave her in a position financially to pursue and achieve her own dreams. As Alliyah sang, Age aint nothing but a number, it should never be the single factor in keeping two apart, weather the man is older or even the woman. To each its own |
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06/26/11 22:13
Naughty Kitty |
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quote tone kinchloe : quote Naughty Kitty : I not so sure it pathetic cause we all make stupid mistakes in life we wish we never make. I just wish men would learn from each other but most men deny it to each other. Every day men tell me online chat they know 100"S of men 50 marry to thai girl 20 that are happy. WELL all I can say if that was even close to true the way men like how we look we would all be gone from thailand many years ago. GEEZ. western men who even live here are cheated all the time cause they want a young girl wife. Just read our papers....all the time things hppen like thai lady 32 and her thai bf kill her 62 year old dutch husband. but you know what? if they girl not go to prison she will have another 62 year old sucker tomorrow. marry some one near your age. there are exceptions but VERY FEW that work. I never rule anything out when it comes to love, true love. Age? Sorry but I dont agree with u on that for many reasons but the main one is this. I value the quality of each day spent compared to the quanity of days. So what if I should meet a younger woman? The understanding I would have with her would be this and quite simple. Let us enjoy what time we have have together as long as it is quality time. Trust me, when it comes to the point to where I'm a burden then I will remove myself from the picture and wish her well and encourage her to live life to the fullest. I also would want to leave her in a position financially to pursue and achieve her own dreams. As Alliyah sang, Age aint nothing but a number, it should never be the single factor in keeping two apart, weather the man is older or even the woman. To each its own It has nothing to do with you being a burden. it has to do with her living her life like a young women.....the same you did when you were young. NO matter how much you get along eventually she will resent it. oh and that saying age is just a number.....be honest did you say that when you were 25? it seems only older people say that. -------------------- Do you want your balls in my hand or do you want me to hand you your balls?
-2 hours 6000 baht *lunch or dinner + 2 hours 6000 baht -4 hour 7, 500 *lunch or dinner + 4 hours 6500 baht -all day OR all night 9500 baht - 24 hour 12000 www.gappza.me |
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06/26/11 23:48
tone kinchloe |
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quote Naughty Kitty : quote tone kinchloe : quote Naughty Kitty : I not so sure it pathetic cause we all make stupid mistakes in life we wish we never make. I just wish men would learn from each other but most men deny it to each other. Every day men tell me online chat they know 100"S of men 50 marry to thai girl 20 that are happy. WELL all I can say if that was even close to true the way men like how we look we would all be gone from thailand many years ago. GEEZ. western men who even live here are cheated all the time cause they want a young girl wife. Just read our papers....all the time things hppen like thai lady 32 and her thai bf kill her 62 year old dutch husband. but you know what? if they girl not go to prison she will have another 62 year old sucker tomorrow. marry some one near your age. there are exceptions but VERY FEW that work. I never rule anything out when it comes to love, true love. Age? Sorry but I dont agree with u on that for many reasons but the main one is this. I value the quality of each day spent compared to the quanity of days. So what if I should meet a younger woman? The understanding I would have with her would be this and quite simple. Let us enjoy what time we have have together as long as it is quality time. Trust me, when it comes to the point to where I'm a burden then I will remove myself from the picture and wish her well and encourage her to live life to the fullest. I also would want to leave her in a position financially to pursue and achieve her own dreams. As Alliyah sang, Age aint nothing but a number, it should never be the single factor in keeping two apart, weather the man is older or even the woman. To each its own It has nothing to do with you being a burden. it has to do with her living her life like a young women.....the same you did when you were young. NO matter how much you get along eventually she will resent it. oh and that saying age is just a number.....be honest did you say that when you were 25? it seems only older people say that. Somehow u must have gotten the impression that when a young woman is in my life she has to take on the role as an older woman, relinquishing her youth..nothing can be further then the truth. In everycase in which ive been involved with a younger woman, we both have been quite open about this issue..I encourage her to retain her friendships with her friends, to take time and space to be her own person as well as putting no pressure on her in regards to any expectations i may have. Furthermore, I always inform them that i have three beautiful sons, in which their response is one of admiration on how i am an active father to them. In regards to age when I was much younger,, when i was a teenager, i often slept with girls older then me..funny because most of those girls, initiated the sex...Naughty Kitty I respect ur opinion, but you are trying to generalize something that should always be on a more personal level...take care tone |
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06/29/11 12:00
Los Nuevos Rebeldes |
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it's wrong, if you fall in love with your client,
then the fuck is free! |
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07/03/11 07:26
sexy hot kiss |
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For me, it's okay to fall in love but u have to love urself first and don't be impulsive with ur decisions.
Try to know the person first, be his friend don't just jump and be his girlfriend. Some relationship especially with clients don't last and it's just the lust thing. Some escorts tends to get hurt badly.... That's why, having a relationship with clients failed and it's no fairy tale... Reality is not always sweet....... |
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07/03/11 11:12
tone kinchloe |
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quote sexy hot kiss : For me, it's okay to fall in love but u have to love urself first and don't be impulsive with ur decisions. Try to know the person first, be his friend don't just jump and be his girlfriend. Some relationship especially with clients don't last and it's just the lust thing. Some escorts tends to get hurt badly.... That's why, having a relationship with clients failed and it's no fairy tale... Reality is not always sweet....... well said sexy, also in regards to a client falling in love with an escort or vice versa, the cards from the get go are stacked against them. I myself when it comes to being in love, keep my walls somewhat up. Mostly due to the hurt I've experienced in the past. As far as myself falling for an escort when I do use one on occassion? It will never happen, for many reasons, too many to discuss here...luv ur pov and have a great day! tone |
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07/03/11 11:37
K Dash |
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Call me naive or foolish but I believe in fairy tales. Everyone deserves a chance in love, be it a client or an escort.
So, to answer the question of the thread starter, no, it's not wrong to fall in love with a client, especially if the person's worth it. --------------------  |
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02/20/12 05:58
BoredChik |
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Even escorts deserve to fall in love...
As well, if you chose the wrong guy, whether it is not your client or he was a client, you still end up to be hurt. I've fallen in love with some of my clients, some didn't work out - but hey, I had fun during the time were together! Being in love is such a wonderful time - and even us escorts deserve to be in love. Even with client - but make sure that the feeling is mutual! :) -------------------- http://boredchik.professionalescort.com
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02/22/12 22:24
Diaphanous Deity |
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quote Los Nuevos Rebeldes : it's wrong, if you fall in love with your client, then the fuck is free! Lol. That is true. That's why everyone in the business has to be careful, because you'll never know who's being truthful and sincere. There are sleazy people out there who would go as far as that just to get it for free. Of course there are exceptions. Nonetheless, it would help if everyone is focused on their priorities and remind themselves why they are in this job. -------------------- http://diaphanousdeity.escort-site.com
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03/04/12 09:58
Chiaki Michibayashi |
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Falling in love is a natural phenomenon but for escorts, it’s an occupational hazard as perilous as disease. Maybe I am only cynical because I am transsexual, a mere fetish to many and the chances of any man ever taking me seriously in an old-fashioned, long-lasting romantic sense are zilch (admittedly among my reasons for turning to the sex industry), but I equate this kind of relationship with bareback sex: You’re only extremely lucky if you dodged the bullet but if not, then you must pay the price for throwing caution to the wind! Functional romantic relationships between escorts and clients are an exception rather than the rule, in case you have forgotten. It’s not worth pursuing unless you are living in the fairy-tale section of the library. Love is transient and elusive and I’d rather channel my time and energy into the wealth that I acquire from this business and use it wisely to enjoy a hedonistic, drama-free existence rather than invest my emotions in ill-fated relationships.
--------------------  “What looks and feels like love to me would, I promise you, leave you sexually, emotionally, spiritually and financially devastated...†http://erokawaii.moonfruit.com |
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03/04/12 11:08
Michael2015 |
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Having been married & hurt/humilated by my ex-wife for my being physically disabled, I've put up an inpenetrable wall around my feelings as I won't ever trust again. I kno that's sad, but NO ONE should ever B treated either, verbally or physically, abused for something they have NO control over. I would'nt have sed that to a dog, but I was treated worse than a dog; to this day, she's never apologized...not that it would do any good b/c when someone/anyone treats U like shit U're beter off w/o them in Ur life.
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