why men do not admit it they have been suckered

Ok I start a new one since every one want to change the subject on my last ESCORT related post.

Why dont everyone hear about the storys of cheating and stealing when western men date or marry asian bar girls or escorts.

a few men do tell their stroy but there are so many men who have too much pride or ego or shame to admit they have been scamed.

On aff and other dating site I see men every day talk about one man who admits he was cheated and laugh at him. then later I find out of of those men laughing was cheated himself.that is crazy. Guys if you want girls to stop cheating you YELL AS LOUD AS YOU CAN ANDS TELL EVERYONE who cheated you. The girl you sent money to last week to go to school is spending it on dates with her REAL bf. The girl you sent money to cause her father must have a heart operation and the hospital will not do it until he pay is out gambling and drinking with her friends on your money.

Also guys PLEASE learn the visa requirements of your countrt before sending a girl money for a visa. I am amazed how many USA men for example dont even know their own laws and send girls money thinking they can come in a week.

And I am sorry if it hurt yor feeling but no 25 year old girl dreams of fucking a man old as her father as much a syou want to believe it or as much as escorts want to make you believe it. And the fastest girl to say I am wrong is the one to watch out for the most.

there was a lady of AFF chat who always compalined she had no money to see her children cause they had been taken from her cause she had no money to feed them and aske dmen to help her.

the same lady say 3 months later she have cancer and no hospital will help her cause she not enough money for treatment and ask men to help.

this sound obvious cause I not post 100 pages of her talk but trust me these girls can make many men feel sympathy...SHAME on them when there is so many homeless and needy people in this world. Please guys think about it....if a girl is on the computer chatting she cant be that poor.

of cause these girls not like me cause I want to change how it work. When I see a man he only give me anythng hand to hand and when we are together. I do not think escort is a low class job like many want to believe...it is the people who do escort that make it low by playing your emotion. I enjoy what I do and I will never ever cheat you or play you for sympathy.

my words on net can sound tough and aggressive but they are to make you think and use the brain God give you. The men here who have met me real can tell you person to person I am as soft and innoncent personality you will ever meet.

You make a lot of very good points. Sadly, some people are desperate for "somebody" and their commen sense goes out of the window. They believe what they want to believe.

(I read just yesterday about a UK lady who over nine sent about $120,000 to what she believed was a US soldier stationed in Iraq who was calling her and telling her he loved her. They met online, never in person. She sent the last, biggest bunch of money and he stopped calling. Police traced the number to Nigeria. She now has to sell her house to pay the debts she's accrued.)

I expect men who've been scammed don't admit it because they know they have been fools and they are embarrassed. I think that's understandable.


"my words on net can sound tough and aggressive but they are to make you think and use the brain God give you."

Amen to that!

Carrie x

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"Asian girls"?
Isn't this much too general?
You are also talking about ladies from Turkey, Isreal, Syria, Jordan, etc.

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Once again, our Kitty has started a thread which is invaluable to the novice hobbyst who may stumble upon the marvelous seduction of many women who inhabit the world.

I stumbled upon the following video with regards to why many Thai women marry foreign men. It's very interesting. Comments?

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Let's say it works as long as the guy has money for the young wife, parents in law, may be even some cousins. The final countdown and moment of truth starts when the money is spent. :) Farangs cannot buy land in Thailand. Often they are tourists going every 30 days on a visa run. House, car, motorcycle, everything belongs to the beloved wife and her family.
The guys are so naive. They really believe having things under control. They do not know speaking the language, they do not know anything about culture and values. Sometimes I believe these things have improved, but then our chamber of commerce, or ambassy asks to donate for guys who have no money to buy a return ticket, and to pay the overstay time.

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This does not just happen in Thailand or Asia it is going on world wide. Women of all countries are searching for American or Foregin husbands. As the film shows it deffinetily impacts the ecconomic standing of the woman marrying the foreigner, and to a varying extent, her family. The problem with these types of online services is that many of them are scams so men get suckered into sending women money who the man thinks is serious about a relationship with him.
Another problem that exists is the visa requirements for a foreign wife to marry a man and to be able to return to his native country, with citizenship, are gone or never were there so it is easier for the married couple to live in the country of the wife than the husband.
At one time "War Brides" of American soldiers were given America Citizenship but not any longer. A foregin woman must now apply for an Fiancee Visa after proving she and the man have had a relationship and she is serious about marriage. Of course once they are married for a couple of years she can divorce him, have her citizenship and half his property. In some countires, Costa Rica is one, if a foregin man marries a native woman all his property goes to her when he dies no matter what his will or trust say. So you can be sure I'll never marry a woman in Costa Rica.
Men are made fools of and suckered by woman all the time and men sucker women just as often.

Thank you for such a well thought and well researched comment Paul! You can only feel sorry for those who have not traveled around elsewhere and has no idea of what is happening outside their own country and still think they know it all. That just cracks me up!!!!!!

So sad, so sad!
But then again -maybe it is just a women's pay back for centuries of men's domination?

Oh well, what do they say? "Behind a man's downfall is a woman".

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