was it really love?

Though it is often merely an act of lust, sex is also an expression of love. The intimate contact can cause someone to feel close to you, whether you feel that way or not. Intimacy can, for an emotionally vulnerable person, feel like a love connection.

Hormones wreak havoc on the human mind. I know that, for me, sex is a need. Long term lack of it plays with my mind and emotions. Sleep becomes impossible, and being exhausted leads to other issues.

Separating the drive/need for sex from the need for love requires an honest look at self. Facing self is the answer. Meeting a man's need for sex can create a sort of bond. Most men, not being self aware, will think they've found love.

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Please don't take this wrong but many men look for foreign ladies in hopes of getting controle of them. There are many men who will use mail order brides to do this as well. Be careful who you trust and if it sounds to good to be true it most likely is.

Now for the unsuspecting man who has no clue how to handle the emotions of finally being in the arms of a beautiful woman. Some do feel they have fallen head over heels in love and lose all insight to what is real. They really are lost in their emotions and may not realize what it is they are doing to stalk you. There's a thin line to what could be safe and when real danger is right around the corner. If you feel any man is getting into a conflict with you and you are uncomfortable in any way be sure others know. Never meet anyone in private who is pushing for you to be with just them if this isn't your wishes.

Kisses Haley

Stalking, (unexpected) rejection, lust, domination/control are general trials of an explanation which all make sense, but which in my opinion do not really hit the mark related to Kitty's case. In my opinion the case which Kitty described can simply be titled "Western biased Farang meets extraordinary Thai Escort".
Why biased? Well, he is biased because of his education, what he was told at home, what he knows, or better what he does not know.

I do not think that this guy would have behaved as Kitty described towards an escort at home in his country. At some extent he has seen in Kitty the good, fallen person not doing her business by choice. How can she reject his offer? It happens that some guys simply lose it towards such a stunning lady, especially when they think they offer a better alternative. That's not real love, it is an absurd reaction pattern. No Chinese, Thai, or Japanese man would behave like this, or make such an offer. For Kitty it was a bad - may be even scaring - experience.

Kitty, the total picture or story of the men you've pointed out is not complete so we do not really know the real score, whatever it is. And I do believe with the various reactions posted is true if it fits well with the situtions or personalities of the man/men you are saying.

For me, you may not believe this guy or these guys in loved with you with your present job or situation, but sometimes this happens. Is it fairy tale or Hollywood fiction? In real life this really happens though the percentage rate is very low say, one in a million!