was it really love?
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12/14/10 08:38
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I have met many client say they love me. Of cause some is just what the man would say to any girl he with but I have a few who actually get angry after.
So if a man says he loves you and wants you stop working and be with only him and if you refuse he later get angry and very mean and threats.........did he ever really love you or just want to control you? I mean if a man really loves you, he may go away sad but he would never think to harm you or talk down to you right? if it is really love would he not keep hope alive and even try to be a friend? I have had a few experience with men after I see them doing this when I say no -------------------- Do you want your balls in my hand or do you want me to hand you your balls?
-2 hours 6000 baht *lunch or dinner + 2 hours 6000 baht -4 hour 7, 500 *lunch or dinner + 4 hours 6500 baht -all day OR all night 9500 baht - 24 hour 12000 www.gappza.me |
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12/14/10 09:21
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What is the background of the clients (tourist, profession, lonely heart, broken heart, farang) and their age?
What do you mean with, they want to control you? Can you give an example? In which way do they talk down? In my opinion it can happen that a temporary crush on someone is possible, - but normally not after a couple of hours. Generally I tend to say, no real love, but may be a temporary crush or special mood. |
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12/14/10 11:53
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love is like a rosary that full of mistery
-------------------- whammy whammy i want money yeahhh awww
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12/14/10 16:34
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quote ToniW : What is the background of the clients (tourist, profession, lonely heart, broken heart, farang) and their age? What do you mean with, they want to control you? Can you give an example? In which way do they talk down? In my opinion it can happen that a temporary crush on someone is possible, - but normally not after a couple of hours. Generally I tend to say, no real love, but may be a temporary crush or special mood. Background can be anything...... I am sure some men tell me the truth about what they do but some never say and of cause some lie cause they make them feel I will like them more. But I ONLY meet caucasian men.......... men who have done this are equal between usa and england with one from austraila. I mean offer me many things but when I refuse get angry and even threaten of physical harm to me or my family. or say I am gving you a chance to be somebody and you want to just be a whore and many other. no man whose love was real deals like that even if his love is not returned. -------------------- Do you want your balls in my hand or do you want me to hand you your balls?
-2 hours 6000 baht *lunch or dinner + 2 hours 6000 baht -4 hour 7, 500 *lunch or dinner + 4 hours 6500 baht -all day OR all night 9500 baht - 24 hour 12000 www.gappza.me |
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12/14/10 21:42
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Sometimes, it happens
But no spark or anything... and it's hard to determined if it's real love or just a plain LUST |
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12/14/10 22:03
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There would be signs to determine if it is real like him introducing you to family friends colleagues plus him genuinely caring for you. if the feeling is mutual then you got yourself a man. Take care of Him, not all men would understand what we do. If also he is real, He wont stop you from being happy, meaning if this job makes you happy he will let you be.
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12/15/10 04:43
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quote squirtingnymph : There would be signs to determine if it is real like him introducing you to family friends colleagues plus him genuinely caring for you. if the feeling is mutual then you got yourself a man. Take care of Him, not all men would understand what we do. If also he is real, He wont stop you from being happy, meaning if this job makes you happy he will let you be. the men I talk about are not like that......these men want me to change my life for them and belong to them. One man only age 28 from from England but live here had me followed and every day emailed me what I had done that day. CRAZY -------------------- Do you want your balls in my hand or do you want me to hand you your balls?
-2 hours 6000 baht *lunch or dinner + 2 hours 6000 baht -4 hour 7, 500 *lunch or dinner + 4 hours 6500 baht -all day OR all night 9500 baht - 24 hour 12000 www.gappza.me |
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12/15/10 05:26
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quote Naughty Kitty : I have met many client say they love me. Of cause some is just what the man would say to any girl he with but I have a few who actually get angry after. So if a man says he loves you and wants you stop working and be with only him and if you refuse he later get angry and very mean and threats.........did he ever really love you or just want to control you? I mean if a man really loves you, he may go away sad but he would never think to harm you or talk down to you right? if it is really love would he not keep hope alive and even try to be a friend? I have had a few experience with men after I see them doing this when I say no me too,,i also have a lots of experience over guys who say that they love me and would give me everything that i want and ask me to stop this escort business..some of them just wants to get in my pants for free ..but i met someone in this business at first im not sure of this guy i gave him a lot of trials and he pass with flying colors ..hes a simple guy who knows how to treat a lady,he accepts my past he just introduce to me to his relatives.... |
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12/15/10 05:28
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quote squirtingnymph : There would be signs to determine if it is real like him introducing you to family friends colleagues plus him genuinely caring for you. if the feeling is mutual then you got yourself a man. Take care of Him, not all men would understand what we do. If also he is real, He wont stop you from being happy, meaning if this job makes you happy he will let you be. experience wise you are right.... |
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12/15/10 15:38
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Most men never experience being with a truly beautiful and sexy woman. It is easy to confuse desire with love and the expectation of love. It is true that some men consider marriage a male-controlled relationship, but I think that part is independent from the issue.
It takes a mature man to know how to handle rejection. I started my career as a salesman. Rejection is never easy to take but you learn how to manage it. The reaction to rejection is worse when you convince yourself that you will NOT be rejected before it happens. I can imagine some American men meeting you, recognizing the prize that you are, and thinking that because of the work you do, you must be destitute and in need of a "protector" or "provider". They probably convince themselves the you would be an easy sell and the risk of rejection is low. So the disappointment is great when rejected and emotions take over. I can believe that anger takes over and behavior is irrational (not justifying, just explaining). I do agree that if it were true love, they would not want to harm you, but I don't think they recognize the difference between their desire and love or the expectation of love. -------------------- Doc77
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12/15/10 19:26
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Doc, U're rite that a 'mature' man knows the difference between actual love of a woman & plain lust.
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12/16/10 00:12
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quote Doc77 : Most men never experience being with a truly beautiful and sexy woman. It is easy to confuse desire with love and the expectation of love. It is true that some men consider marriage a male-controlled relationship, but I think that part is independent from the issue. It takes a mature man to know how to handle rejection. I started my career as a salesman. Rejection is never easy to take but you learn how to manage it. The reaction to rejection is worse when you convince yourself that you will NOT be rejected before it happens. I can imagine some American men meeting you, recognizing the prize that you are, and thinking that because of the work you do, you must be destitute and in need of a "protector" or "provider". They probably convince themselves the you would be an easy sell and the risk of rejection is low. So the disappointment is great when rejected and emotions take over. I can believe that anger takes over and behavior is irrational (not justifying, just explaining). I do agree that if it were true love, they would not want to harm you, but I don't think they recognize the difference between their desire and love or the expectation of love. Well stated Doc! The reason of the behaviour Kitty described can be found in an unexpected rejection. Why unexpected is a new issue. The question now is, if an escort, can avoid such a situation, or how to react if such a problem comes up? Any ideas? It may sound a little bit crazy, but when you are forced to fire/dismiss an employee, you can create similar reactions. A (former) good colleague or employee becomes unfriendly and starts threatening you. |
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12/16/10 13:02
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Ohhh Kitty you have a stalker! I wonder if you can actually file a restraining order in Thailand.
Here are a few tips on how to handle a stalker... http://www.ehow.com/how_2057388_handle-stalkers.html Aside from that it would not hurt to actually invest on a baseball bat so the next time he shows up at your door uninvited or if he ever does tell him that you intend to beat him to death with that bat and then you will drag him inside so you can make it easier for the police. Wink Wink!!! Have CCTV cameras installed all over your place. Nice! I had once back when I was Managing a place in Xiamen. It only stopped when I moved out of Xiamen. Luckily I had to move to Shanghai plus I never go home alone since my staff stays in the same building as mine's. |
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12/18/10 07:54
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quote squirtingnymph : Ohhh Kitty you have a stalker! I wonder if you can actually file a restraining order in Thailand. Here are a few tips on how to handle a stalker... http://www.ehow.com/how_2057388_handle-stalkers.html Aside from that it would not hurt to actually invest on a baseball bat so the next time he shows up at your door uninvited or if he ever does tell him that you intend to beat him to death with that bat and then you will drag him inside so you can make it easier for the police. Wink Wink!!! Have CCTV cameras installed all over your place. Nice! I had once back when I was Managing a place in Xiamen. It only stopped when I moved out of Xiamen. Luckily I had to move to Shanghai plus I never go home alone since my staff stays in the same building as mine's. my place is guarded so that is ok. I only have to worry when go outside. I never too invite man into my home I always go his place -------------------- Do you want your balls in my hand or do you want me to hand you your balls?
-2 hours 6000 baht *lunch or dinner + 2 hours 6000 baht -4 hour 7, 500 *lunch or dinner + 4 hours 6500 baht -all day OR all night 9500 baht - 24 hour 12000 www.gappza.me |
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12/19/10 03:55
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quote Naughty Kitty : quote squirtingnymph : Ohhh Kitty you have a stalker! I wonder if you can actually file a restraining order in Thailand. Here are a few tips on how to handle a stalker... http://www.ehow.com/how_2057388_handle-stalkers.html Aside from that it would not hurt to actually invest on a baseball bat so the next time he shows up at your door uninvited or if he ever does tell him that you intend to beat him to death with that bat and then you will drag him inside so you can make it easier for the police. Wink Wink!!! Have CCTV cameras installed all over your place. Nice! I had once back when I was Managing a place in Xiamen. It only stopped when I moved out of Xiamen. Luckily I had to move to Shanghai plus I never go home alone since my staff stays in the same building as mine's. my place is guarded so that is ok. I only have to worry when go outside. I never too invite man into my home I always go his place How can you get a restraining order for this guy? You never see a client alone right??? |
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