Forum - Birthday Celebrations

OK, your birthday is cumming up and a favorite lover has been planning a little celebration for your big day.

You get to choose which part of the plan to omit. You can only omit one thing.

Have fun choosing!

Damn! I don't mind for this poll is for gals in fact, but it doesn't let multichoosing again...shit! I am Sure that many respondents wouldn't choose an only one point though the poll is composed very smartly and versatile.

The poll is for both men and women.

As far as wanting to choose more than one item, it looks like that is not permitted by the polling software. It would certainly be nice if a person could choose as many items in a poll as he/she wished. That would make polls much more versatile.

I like it all....except for the tickling.
To be tied down blindfolded is kinda of a weird fantasy of mine!! Though I probably would have left gagged out if I could of. And a nice sensual massage is a plus.

I think I'll have a talk with our programmers about it. It seems to me that it wouldn't be extremely difficult to modify a bit.

I don't mind if I would be blindfolded but a good bath or sauna is pleasant too.

If so I would prefer to be blind folded and well massaged in sauna. What a nice birthday, for this would be only a beginning...;-)

It would be hard for me to omit one because I like it all; but for this poll I would have to say gagging would be omitted. Other than that, I would love everything else.
Kisses,
12pleaseu

OK, babe, here's a scene that you might like. I did this in a local club with a friend for Valentine's Day last year.

I started off by having her strip completely. Then I put leather cuffs on her wrists and ankles and chained her to a St. Andrew's cross facing forward. A blindfold was placed over her eyes and a ball gag was put in her mouth. I began by slowly and gently teasing her by running my fingers over her skin and pussy hair. I whispered sensual things in her ear. I slowly licked and sucked her ears, neck, and nipples and put suction cups on her nipples. By this time, she was already in la-la land.

I administered a few sharp bare-handed swats to her inner thighs, and pulled on her hair. Occasionally, I would run my fingers along her labia. After a bit more teasing and swats, it was time to turn her over to work on her ass. Temporarily removing the gag, I gave her a drink of water through a straw, and released her ankles and then her wrists, slowly lowering her arms to her sides. I had her turn around facing the cross, and I chained her in place, arms at her sides to give them a rest.

I started spanking her ass with my bare hands, alternating with gentle caresses. I spanked harder as she got warmed up. Then I used a riding crop on her ass and inner thighs. I carressed the sides of her breasts. I scratched her back with my nails, leaving marks. A leather paddle upped the ante on her ass. After about an hour of increasing spanking/caressing/teasing, I took out the gag, gave her a drink, and released her from the cross.

Then I chained her, still blindfolded, face up on a padded table, with a small pillow beneath her head. Her legs were spread wide. After caresssing her inner thighs and running my fingers gently over her pussy hair for a while, I put on vinyl gloves and began massaging her labia. I penetrated her with first one, then two fingers. After a combination of G-spot and clitoral massage, she came. A drink was offered. Then while she floated on cloud nine, I followed up by light finger-tip massage all over for about 30 minutes.

Finally, I undid her bonds and covered her with a snuggly throw, and she rested for a half hour. Having played for several hours, we were both hungry, so we got something to eat and then watched the other scenes.

OK, maybe I left out a few things, but you get the picture...

Would you really prefer such a way of having fun, 12pleaseu?
As for me it's too exotic, though I usually don't mind anything bizarre :))). A gag!

Gags can be fun under the right circumstances.

You really need to trust your partner and have a method of signalling a problem. Some people hold an object in their hand which, if dropped, means something's not OK.

There are different kinds of gags. You can make a simple gag from a kitchen towel with or without a knot in the middle. Ball gags fill the mouth. Some gags are fashioned like horse bridles. There are gags with dildoes on one or both ends (use your imagination!).

Gags that fit in the mouth come in different sizes; getting the right size is important. Some ball gags have holes in them to make breathing easier.

Also, gags are best when the person is standing or face down, because they usually cause the subject to salivate a lot, and you don't want them to choke. It might be appropriate to place a towel under the subject's mouth to catch the drool, but sometimes letting the drool run down their chin is an option.

Gags, along with blindfolds and being tied down, really make a person vulnerable. That can be very erotic.