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Forum - Trying To Get An Appointment With Kayla...!

 
Trying To Get An Appointment With Kayla...!
Michael
02/11/08 12:17
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dominixe
02/11/08 12:34
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Sorry that you've had this bad experience Michael. Not all escorts behave this way. This may be an indicator of the kind of experience you may get if you and she ever got together.

You should realize that the disrespect and insincerity can go both ways. I have had many similar experiences with guys contacting me to make an appointment. They give false information, they don't confirm appointments, they don't answer return calls or emails, etc.

I know that there are decent guys 'out there', and there are also good escorts 'out there'.


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Michael
02/11/08 12:42
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dominixe
02/11/08 13:20
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quote Michael :
... some escorts who are currently in the industry and have been for a while should contact her and tell her to get her to get her act together ... Are there any escorts up for that challange, as she really needs a good talking to?!

Not our job to do that Michael. You know the saying "you can lead a horse to water, but you can't make him drink."


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Michael
02/11/08 14:00
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neoscotia
02/11/08 15:41
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That's not good, thanks for pointing this out. It saves me $120 that I can use elsewhere!
 
Michael
02/11/08 15:49
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dominixe
02/11/08 16:37
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quote Michael :
Then it would be no ones job for people new to any industry to be given info from someone who has been doing the job for a while, and service -- again from any industry -- would go down the drain.

Its a competitive business, and if one is an independent escort and does not know that being professional and providing good service is just good business practice ... and she subsequently fails because of this shortfall ... then its her decision and her responsibility, no one else's. Service is not going to go 'down the drain', rather escorts that provide good service will thrive and those that do not will fail. The customer is the one that makes the choice. That's the way business works.

This is a helping community. There are good people on this site that will provide answers and support for those new to the business, myself included. All any new provider or new hobbyist needs to do is ask for help. However, its presumptuous for any of us to think we know enough to intervene, especially not hearing directly from the provider herself.

Those in health services know that people can be in different stages, and that success in being helpful very much depends on the stage. A person needs to be in a 'receptive' stage in order to be helped. Any intervention is an unwanted intrusion of privacy unless that person wants to be helped.


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Michael
02/11/08 17:28
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dominixe
02/11/08 17:32
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quote dominixe :
Not our job to do that Michael. You know the saying "you can lead a horse to water, but you can't make him drink."

Its very interesting that shortly after I post my opinion to this thread, I receive a negative vote on it. That's OK. Everyone's entitled to vote how they think/feel. Obviously someone did not like what I said.

I thought I would mention this so that readers of this thread know all the background here.


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Michael
02/11/08 17:33
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Site Admin
02/12/08 12:10
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Yeah, sometimes people do strange things ... so strange ... play games the benefits of which are completely obscure and irrational ... I know who did it, and I even can guess who actually was behind these votes.

Just want to remind everyone that casting your negative votes in a random order doesn't help anybody including you. Please, be conscious, you don't just hit the button, you express your attitude towards the posts and site members. We will be banning members abusing the reputation system.


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claud
02/12/08 18:00
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quote Michael :
She needs help, asked for or not...she's giving escorts a bad name as far as I am concerned.

Sorry Michael, but I have to agree completely with dominixe here.

Just step back a little and consider any other area of "Personal Service", such as child-minder, hairdresser, housemaid, private tutor. Suppose a new service provider moved into your area with a seemingly perfect CV. Suppose that despite your best efforts, you couldn't get to meet her for an interview and she never returned your calls. What would you do? Would you expect other hairdressers, housemaids, etc to intervene on your behalf and give her a good talking to? Or would you just shrug your shoulders and move on ... try and find someone a little more enthusiastic about working for you?

Just one other point. In my experience, a large proportion of women who decide to have a go at escorting don't survive in the business for more than a few months. Various reasons: the amount of timewasters and fakers you have to deal with, the occasional very bad experience, the intervention of "real life" (husband, boyfriend), the fact that you almost certainly won't make as much money as you imagine. It may be that Kayla has already decided that she's not cut out for this kind of work.
 


 


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