Japan is in dire straits. The population is declining, people are marrying later, having fewer children, if any at all. And one of the major reasons for the dilemma is that as many as 70 percent of younger men are unable to achieve vaginal ejaculation.
"They've got no erection problems and they can masturbate perfectly normally, but there has been a massive increase, particularly among those in their 20s and 30s, who are suffering from vaginal ejaculation disorder, or an inability to ejaculate inside the vagina," says Koichi Nagao, a urologist at the Toho University Omori Medical Center. "It's the most common dysfunction I have to deal with among people who come to the clinic. It leads to problems in the home, fertility problems and, in the worst cases, divorce."
Though there's no data available on exactly how many Japanese men are actually suffering from vaginal ejaculation disorder, a soapland brothel worker says over her many years of servicing male clients, it would have to be around 70 percent.
Experts say one of the main reasons men develop vaginal ejaculation disorder is that they learn how to masturbate using methods that feel distinctly different from vaginas, such as rubbing up against pillows or lying face down and moving back and forward for stimulation until climax.
That's not to say that doing it by hand is a preferable solution, either.
"Incorrect methods aren't the only problem. Gripping it too strongly or moving too quickly during masturbation are also methods that bring sensations radically different to an actual vagina," Nagao says. "Ejaculation is stress-relieving, so there's a mentality problem involved as well because guys grip themselves firmer or move their hands faster because they want to feel pleasure as quickly as possible."
Pshrink Katsumi Harima agrees that mental issues are involved with the onset of vaginal ejaculation disorder.
"Sex is too accessible for young people nowadays, what with adult movies and Internet porn," says Harima. "They're too used to the virtual world, which means when they find things like a woman who doesn't have porn star looks, is sweaty, or doesn't moan as loud as they're expecting, they become unable to ejaculate."
By Ryann Connell
Mainichi Japan January 31, 2008
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