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First of all, please don't think you're "hijacking" the thread. This is an open forum, and the main purpose is to engage in lively debate and exchange ideas. Secondly, there can never be too many questions. How else are you supposed to learn?

The hanger I use is probably not recommended at Thunders's Place. It is the old "noose style" which is placed around just above the glands. Again, I started with very light weight and worked my way up. You can use a thin guage type wrap around your unit to provide a buffer for the rope for comfort.

With the JELQ device, I would say that you want to maintain a consistent pressure on each stroke. Not too hard, but not too easy. Make sure you start at the base of your semi-erect unit and stroke to the tip. This is a full JELQ stroke IMO.

With the pump, I use either petroleum jelly or the like. It provides a super seal and gives me the option of JELQing shortly thereafter. I prefer JELQing after pumping since I'm all lubed up, and not dry JELQing (although it can be done).

What are your starting "bone pressed" erection length and girth (circumference) linear measurements if I may ask?

Here is another one of my favorite positions when one has achieved added length and girth from PE excercises.

This position will allow you some of the DEEPEST penetration you can get. I prefer to bend my partner's legs until their ankles reach their ears - depends on the flexibility of the woman. I've been with some contortionists that can do this no problem. We jokingly refer this as "ankle earings."

Unfortuantely, if you're with very small/tiny women (5 foot tall and under, 90 pounds and under) like I frequent, and you're as long/thick as I am when full aroused/erect (9 inches long x 6.75 inches in circumference) - you may run the risk of pounding their cervix which I have been told is very painful. That really depends on the woman, since each has a different tolerance level. I only go as far as my partner desires. I make sure communication is always present as I ratchet up the position.

I find that taking it easy,slow, and comfortable with each person allows each person to be comfortable with one another to do anal. I've done it a few times already and it was very nice! When it's done with lots of oil and lube; it's a lot of fun for both partners and things go more smoothly too. I personally love it as well.

I'm new to all this, but as I look at the ads, what catches my eye is a woman that I think I can feel comfortable with. I see the phrase, "Girl Friend Experience", and I think that says alot more than just the services offered. To me than would mean a woman that isn't too sophisticated (because I'm not) yet not someone that is trashy either. Maybe some photos of an escort in a nice dress, and some of her in jeans and a t-shirt. For me, a nude photo isn't needed in an ad. Just some tasteful full body pictures, along with some close up face pics would do the job. That's just my two cents....