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Still around but busier then I've ever been. Preparing to leave Singapore! Quite miss this forum (:

Alexa

April Surprises

For the month of April, I'm offering a fairly simple package -

6 hours of companionship including -
Lunch and/or High Tea at a quiet and peaceful spot
A visit to the local museum(s) or a movie
2 -3 hours of private time.

Rates - SGD3000*

*Lunch and cost for the entertainment all inclusive

I've decided to have surprises and little perks for every month. I might offer an erotic menage a trois package for a certain month, or even an adventure package where we check out Universal Studios at Singapore's newly opened Resort World, tickets included in the package.

So stay tuned for my monthly surprises (:

You should listen to what everyone else is telling you - you should just go for it. So what if you get glared at on the street. People in Thailand stare at EVERYONE they think look interesting. They stare at me because I look exotic, they stare at my little sister because she's got huge eyes, they stare at an Indian couple simply because they're Indian.

Look-wise, we Asians have this uncanny ability to always look youthful no water how old we are. A more mature lady of 45, like my very own mother, may look so youthful and taken such good care of herself that she could pass of for a 30 or a 35 year old. We age slower then Caucasians so no matter how mature a lady you choose (unless she's over 50), she will ALWAYS look more youthful then you do.

So instead of worrying about appearances, go ahead and have a good time. A couple of greatly differing ages, especially a couple that's made up of an Asian lady and a Caucasian man, is quite a common sight now. So just go ahead and have fun (:

Alexa

Hey there!

I haven't posted in more then a month now but I'm starting again.

I think I have mentioned this to another male escort before but I wouldn't mind mentioning it again.

As a male escort, your target market are the ladies in your area. We girls are not visual creatures like you men are. We do not need erotic or in-your-face pictures to arouse our interest. We want to be seduced and courted. We want to be charmed out of our knickers by a gentleman.

In fact, in-your-face nude pictures (like your profile picture) may actually be a turn off for some female hobbyist. As I said - we want gentlemen and we want someone refined. If we have to pay for it, we better get someone who is as near perfect as can be. Some might think your photo is lewd and therefore come to the conclusion that you yourself might be lewd or uncouth and therefore decide not to hire you. Image is very important. Get better pictures, maybe of your physique? Or you in casual yet tidy attire. Another "LOOK I HAVE A HUGE PENIS" shot isn't going to cut it.

The website is good; be sure to have your website listed on other escort listings like Open Adult Directory. You can advertise more on your local advertising forum or post more here! Our forum is like a public advertising area. Post more, get more points and be known to the pool of hobbyist here. Also, if you posted regularly and you get many reputation points, your ad listing in your area will also slowly rise to the top until eventually, you are the first one in the listing.

Alexa

Very recently, I had a date with a client who made a comment (or three) regarding the attire of escorts that he has gone on dates with. He lamented about her choice of attire - huge hoop earrings, hot pants, spaghetti top, visible bra strap, etc.

To the hobbyist - how do you expect your companion to dress for your date?

Personally, I feel that the above mentioned attire is far too indiscreet, especially for an Asian girl on a date with a Caucasian gentleman. Her attire and company would certainly draw a few raised eyebrows.

Many of you would say that attire really depends on the occasion/setting for the date. I can see myself wearing the above mentioned attire if I were on a date to the beach but what about other settings? Say, dinner in a 5 star hotel, sight seeing, a formal event.

I'd like to know what you all think (:

Alexa

I have to add this.

(Note - I don't mean to offend any Asian guys!)

Size does matter, especially if you're paying for it.

Asian men are generally/usually not as well endowed as Caucasian men and from a female perspective, if she's paying for it, she had better get an impressive equipment in her hands. Some women really do believe that the thicker the better and the thicker, the more worth her $. And when her mind works this way, Asian Male Escorts will certainly be ticked off her list of possible pleasure buddies.

But then again, there are other pleasurable things to do besides thrusting : D

Culture, History, Tradition

We Asians are far more conservative then our Caucasian counterparts, no? Throughout Asian history, we see men visiting their escorts but have we seen the females visiting courtiers? I'm sure there are instances but they are both rarely seen and rarely mentioned and highly shameful. Pre-marital sexual relationships and extra marital sexual relationships (by the women) are highly frowned upon even though the men are encouraged to do so. Look at the past emperors of China, monogamy is definitely not in their dictionary.

From all this, there is something ingrained in us Asian women that it's not the norm to call on the guy. The men have always been visiting the women and today, they continue to do so but not the other way around. With this sense of "It's not right", the local ladies in the AME's area wouldn't exactly call of servicing and the AME's themselves would be at loss regarding advertising because of lack of interest and the lack of clients to pass on little tidbits about his good service. This lack of advertising would definitely mean that visiting females from the other regions would probably not know of you and therefore not call you either.

(I think I made completely no sense in the 2nd part heh)

Love
Alexa

I know I am risking my reputation points by writing this but this has to be said.

This post is entirely one sided and only done from Tuk's point of view. If the readers and forum members were to only read this post and not the cause of her "fury", they would agree that Luli123 is a harassment. So let me give you the full story because I think, it is unfair that Tuk has somewhat wrongly accused Luli123.

Luli123 booked Tuk twice although the experience was unsatisfactory. Though usually a private person, he felt that he should perhaps write a review to share his experience and to warn hobbyist who are looking and expecting for more then just sex, that Tuk isn't the escort to go to.

This is his review - http://www.sexyescortads.com/reviews/view_details/8768/

There was a little scuffle in the comments and I am not going to take sides. I'd like to ask BOTH parties these questions -

1. Luli123, why did you book her repeatedly AND offer to book her for a year should you feel that her service is unsatisfactory? Fair enough, you mention that her company is not bad at all. Again, if you think that your experience is worth sharing, why did you not do so earlier? This really makes things cloudy as to whether you really posted the review because of her rejection OR you did it out of sheer jealousy and frustration.

2. Tuk, IF he truly did email you several emails, "Harassing" you, as you put it, why did you not inform the admin? I would presume Luli123 got to know you through this website. If so, you should have informed the administration about him so that he would not "harass" other escorts too.

One could say that you calling him a harassment is due to the fact that he posted an honest, bad review about you which means that you're just sore over the fact he said you're not worth it, and that your whole story here is just a lie. To clear things up, why don't you post up some of the emails that he supposedly sent to harass you. This would really prove that he's a harassment and that you're victim.

Alexa

Kitty, if you'd like a website catered entirely and exactly to your taste, what you could do is hire a web designer and have it custom-made. Like mine! My website was entirely custom-made and it was exactly what I wanted - www.elegantlyluscious.com

However, custom-made websites get very expensive. For example, my website (without the flash gallery) is SGD500. I added in the flash gallery for SGD300 making it a total of SGD800. That would be about 19 000 Baht. There are some web designers who custom design websites for escorts like Veda Designs but websites designed and hosted by Veda are at least USD1000, about 33 400 Baht. They are very costly but they give you exactly what you want and will leave you with a very professional feel. And don't we all know that you pay for quality?

If you do not want to pay that much, here is what you could do -

Scour the various advertising website for amateur web designers who are very keen in building up their portfolios. They would be very agreeable to designing you a beautiful website for a minimum rate. You may even get a whole website done for about 6000 Baht - more then a third of what I paid for mine. But be sure to scrutinize his existing works and tell him/her exactly what you want or you may really end up with amateur work.

Alexa

Hi!

Welcome to the site.
Love your display picture.

Alexa