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a couple of sub questions here!
I am a secretary and a p/t escort - do other escorts have other jobs? and how do you cope (feeling tired today - hence the question!!)
how many dates should/do you have a week. I am trying to keep mine to 2/3 - so I keep fresh and excited but my agency always want more.
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Added on: 11/08/05 05:20
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Well that stirred up a few interesting responses.
So ..... the O question.
Oral without or Oral with?
Swallow or spit (please don't us the gargle joke!)
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Added on: 11/02/05 03:49
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Interesting debate on stocking though not much help on the type of clothes.
So next question shaved, trimmed or natural. I used to be trimmed prior to working (found b/f liked it, think it looks sexy). However, a number of clients I felt were disappointed - so I shaved this weekend!
What should one do? !!
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Added on: 11/01/05 08:11
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I have been asked by several to continue to Blog and answer some questions. please send me an email if you want a question.
Question of the Day!:
What should a girl wear for her dates?
This is one I struggle with and having spent a few weekends shopping I am not nearer. I understand men want skirts not trouser. Above the knee but not too short. Black is a preference 8/10 of of my last dates asked for that. Without spending a fortune Next, PerUna etc do not have a huge selection of sexy, stylish but not tarty clothes. What does everyone else wear? what do the guys want?
Another question: holdups or stockings. I wear holdups (far less faf!) and always black. What is the preference out there? and any good brands as they get trashed quite quickly don't they!
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Added on: 10/31/05 05:48
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I know I finished quickly (on advice!) but a number have asked some questions. Happy to say more so ask - this helps men too!
What did I think about after my first date?
I thought about the experience, was this out of body, dream or real. It felt real with him inside me but I knew nothing about him except a name. nothing. what was I doing - was it fun or cheap - this is harder to answer, it was fun (see below) but this is not what a nice girl does (not something you say to your career advisor at school!). I think of myself as a nice girl still, just having fun, I have reconciled that this is not about selling my soul or even my body, but its a date. Dates end with sex often and I offer that to all my dates. does this make sense? Am I proud of what I do - no! would people understand? No!
Had I enjoyed the experience? I have always enjoyed sex, the act of taking a man inside me is the most wonderful feeling. Tasting and pleasing a man orally is satisfying (and I realise part of the job!) and with a previous boyfriend's patient help I think I'm quite good at giving head. So yes, I enjoyed it, i have cum (what more can a girl ask!)
am I feeling disguisted? kinda, but more lonely after a date. When I get home (been on 4 dates now!) i don't know what to do. I am buzzing, but alone, I am horny, but alone, not sleepy but need to get some sleep before work tomorrow (secretary not escorting!). It feels empty - just wish I could have a boyfriend! but that is just not possible now is it?
what drives to me see other men? money right now but lets see how things progress over the next wee while ...
Have the guys met my expectations? i think the answer is no. they are normal (the romantic in me thought they would be Richard geres!) they are nice, frustrated , bored, lonely. Sophie summed it up best in her post. Some look like my Dad's friends, some like my boss but they are all polite, nice and (seem) to enjoy being with me.
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Added on: 09/23/05 10:17
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Well here we are a week later - 3 dates later and I guess I am now signed up. still coming to terms with all the issues. The weekend was spent at the gym thinking, shopping for another dress (after a messy encounter with date number 2 meant dress is in the dry cleaners!) and ordered more condoms via mail order. So what now? To be honest no idea - this is exciting but also terrifying.
Happy for advice or 1:1 chats via email.
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Added on: 09/21/05 08:36
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Sorry if I offended etc.
Anyway .... I found myself, two hours later just closing his hotel room door. I felt tired, confused and just rushed out the hotel. I even ignored the very cute guy in the lift who made small talk. In the car I just sat their, radio on thinking about what I had done, how I felt. I needed a shower and go to sleep.
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Added on: 09/16/05 10:48
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So I unzipped and not very elegantly took off my dress - standing there in a Gstring and holdups. No bra. just thinking, now what. Then something took over and I realised I would have to make the move, usually boyfriends would always make such a move. I walked up to him, smiled and sat on his lap and kissed him - full on kiss, just like he was my boyfriend. his had was on my thigh stroking the tops of the holdups and my skin, the other gently raking my back - god that felt good. I pulled away - still brazen and totally out of character - and starting opening his shirt up. this become more frantic as he helped (god don't you hate cuff links!)
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Added on: 09/16/05 05:29
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He then did the best thing of the night - which was pay me a complement. something like - your legs look so great. At that point I kind melted a bit - thought of him less as a transaction (or even worse a point of paying off my credit card bill!) and more of a person. i looked at him (blushing big time) and mumbled something like thank-you. he leaned forward and we kissed, almost at the same time his hand was on my thigh - working slowly up to the lace tops. we snogged like long time lovers - hands everywhere when he broke away, smiling saying please take off my dress. now the self conscience Lauren came back!!
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Added on: 09/15/05 10:15
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what did I expect this guy to be like - all I knew was his name Pete (probably false as is mine!!). he opened the door and this kinda average 45year old was there - I wanted to run away - he was 19 years older than me!! I smiled and kinda stood there not really knowing what to do - he smiled back and said welcome and showed me in. What does an escort do now? should I stand there? ask for money? take my clothes off? god knows. Anyway, I asked how his day was and that kinda broke the ice. He passed my an envelope - should one count or not? I didn't! I sat on the edge of the bed, crossing my legs thinking they don't look too bad so hopefully he likes me. he offered me some wine - average warm wine - yuk - i needed a whole bottle to calm me down. does everyone go through this?
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Added on: 09/15/05 05:38
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i spent an hour in the shower and spent ages doing my hair and face. I had had a glass of wine by this stage to calm the nerves. So what does an escort wear? no idea!! so on went a black G string and holdups and the little black cocktail dress. I was so nervous, excited and scared - it felt like a dream (or out of body experience) - what is a nice girl doing like this??? I looked in the mirror and that didn't make things any better - I looked ok but what man would spend money on me, what if he doesn't like me ......
I drove to the hotel,parks and went straight to the loo! as the nerves got the better of me. Then I knocked on the door.
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Added on: 09/14/05 11:48
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I have been single for a few months and getting pissed off with life, being single and being poor. I am a secretary in the City and need more cash to pay off my credit card. Long story cut short but i went to an agency and signed up. My first proper date was last night - god was I nervous. Does anyone want to know more about the first time I sold my body to a man.
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Added on: 09/14/05 08:34
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