female ejaculation
Submitted on: 01/31/10 19:47
Hi there, I bet you thought I was never going to get this subject up and running. I have threatened so many times, well here it is!!..
Most women can be "squirters" (and just for the record I hate that label) there is a small % of women out there that cannot squirt or ejaculate due to a physical issue. This is around 12% and is associated with heavy clotting and cramping during menstrual cycles. It is also associated with what is called dry birth. This is where the mother does not carry full term and aborts due to a lack of amniotic fluid.
So this leaves 88% of women that are squirters, rite?? Wrong! todays numbers are shockingly low. Only 6% of women actually relax and let the body take over during sex. The rest stop themselves rite at that point rite before. Why? Ill get to that in a bit.
Most of the history of female ejaculation has been ignored or scoffed at by physiologists, psychologists, and gynecologists alike. Even the father of psychology, Freud said it was drummed up by women just wanting attention.. Or some kind of neurotic episode/ penis envy. Ha! Oh contraire my dear one, thanks to 20th century science we have now gotten to the bottom of this myth, a myth that has mentions in numerous places throughout history. The bible, Hindu texts, Greeks and Romans also wrote of it, as well as china having mentioned it in countless book and scripts, all dating back to 590 a.d.
So you see? Ignoring your sexuality does not make it go away, all your doing is not living up to your potential. And why are so many women ignoring such a wonderful gift, a gift that any man alive, and some dead, would give there left nut for? I wish with all my heart I could reach out to all the women out there, having regular boring sex on demand and grab them, teach them and send them back out into the world healthier, happier women. An unhealthy sex life can lead to all kinds of physical illnesses, not to mention emotional damage. Have you ever met a person that has great sex all the time that wasnt generally happy and successful? Now Im not talking about some guy that goes out and picks up anything. Im talking about that rare couple that are open, honest, and loving. That couple that truly enjoy each other sexually. Those are the ones that last a life time, because they are going down that road of sexual exploration together, as it should be.
Now a clinical look at female ejaculation: along the interior wall of the vagina are the par urethral glands and ducts, now known as the Skenes gland or female prostate. The urethra is lined by spongy tissue much like the prostate gland in men, but near to the top, by the urinary passage it is full of what looks like large ducts from which a clear somewhat viscous matter flows in abundance at times. As im sure you know it is the job of the male prostate to secrete a piteous serous fluid which is used for lubrication during intercourse. I have told some of you that have met me, that our bodies physiology wise are not that much different.. Except the fact we can have 27 organisms in 2 hour to your 3, if youre really lucky!! Lol Im not kidding really.
It wasnt until the late 1950s that any real headway had taken place in the world of female Os. this paper was on a study a dr. did on women during arousal to ejaculation. And during stimulation, just as the male counterpart, it began to get larger and firmer. The Para urethral glad reacted the same as a prostate. Only difference is it produces 20 times the amount of fluid than men..
Now the clear fluid that women emit during orgasm is not and never was used for lubrication, unlike the male secretions. As a matter of fact, it is very bad for lube. Can you hand me that bottle hun?
This is also one reason there was allot of controversy over the fluid. Drs could not believe that this fluid was not used for anything other than pleasure. Did you know that a woman can ejaculate up to 2 cups?? And is a site to see. I have to agree, that the first time you see a woman squirt or gush it is quite impressive. And sometimes catches you by surprise, if youre not careful. Now just so there is no mistake, the fluid does come from the urethra. But sometimes if the contractions are hard enough you will see it come from the vaginal canal as well. And yes I said contractions. During a womans ejaculation her vaginal walls go thru contractions, just as she has during child birth. Though not as strong they are strong enough to push out what ever may be in there at the time of orgasm, ie. Dildo, penis, fist, what have you. This is something that can be seen plainly whether there is fluid present or not. As a matter of fact its a little hard to miss. So much for faking it a? Like I have said before, women have an incredible gift that no man on earth can even come close to. A woman if pushed past the first 5 or 6 and can get over that sensitive hump, can literally go thru an endorphin wall by having orgasms. I personally have had 27 in 2 hours, and did just that. It was both a wonderful and a saddening experience. I could not believe the amount of guilt I felt, guilt because I could never give it back. The other realization was that so many women out there have never known and will never know this incredible gift. Most women have never had one let alone 27! Why? Simply because of society and their poison teachings. If you could put yourself where I have been, you to would see the years of incredible waste. For you men out there, the closest you will ever be to this gift is to witness it.. And for most men I have spoken to, that in its self is enough. It is after all you that is creating the stimulation that will bring your wife or girl friend to this glorious place. And seeing the one you love in a state of complete satisfaction is something that fills you with the same satisfaction and creates a bond like no other.
We as a society have to turn the tables on women not wanting to be sexual. stop teaching our little girls that is not her place to enjoy sex. start teaching them about being an adult sexual being. this all started as a way to keep women down, and has come full circle and is now harming men as well. I cant tell you how many men have told me their wives are not sexual and it causes then to go elsewhere. We have to realize that trying to control one another is not the way. yes women have a gift, but a gift we can share best we can with you. I believe that men are ment to be there for us, to support us so we can give you the greatest gifts of all, life, and love.
If you or you and your wife would like more information about this, please feel free to contact me. Ill be happy to teach her everything I know.
and remember if your wife is not enjoying sex.... try harder!! its your job to convince her, and turn her into that animal. make her feel it is ok to be..
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It is nice to explore what life has to offer both sexually and otherwise. It is amazing how much pleasure can be had when one opens ones mind.
I believe (maybe I am wrong) that many women hold themselves from strong climax with ejaculation because they think that what they feel is to urinate.